Work With Me
Alright, who exactly do you think you are? Babe, the fact that you are even considering this is spine tinglingly exciting, so give yourself a pat on the back for making it this far. Outlined below are some ways to work with me, and a few things I picked up about you when I snuck into your head last night.
You can always drop me a DM on instagram if you wanna chat.
PS I delete social media at weekends #smug
PPS If you’re looking for something off the peg, you wanna check out these online workshops.
You’re about to hit the “Live” button, and you wonder- am I in the right place?! What if I’m ACTUALLY on my personal profile? What if people who KNOW ME hear me with my business head on?! Oh my geeeeeee I would DIE. Twice.
So you come off to triple check, wasting time (when you’d already spent a fair while checking your face and your hair and your teeth before that), trying to calm the F down. You deliver the livestream. A couple of people pop on, and quickly leave again. You’re trying to look at your notes without being seen, but you keep losing your flow because of that voice in your head. “THEY CAME, THEY HEARD, THEY LEFT. Because you are BORING AF. You don’t even know what you’re talking about, and they know it.”
You get through it, you come off a bit clammy and blotchy, and start an inner debate about whether you should just delete it. “What’s worse?”, you wonder. “Leaving that up or having nothing to show for your precious time?”
Scrolling to numb the feels, you come across a post from someone else in your industry. Solid. Polished. Interesting. And look at her engagement…
Maybe you should have been better rehearsed, or made more of an effort with your appearance…
On you scroll, until you find someone else from your field, bare faced and basic content, confidence BRIMMING. She talks about her clients and the messages she receives from her followers and you’re like WHERE ARE MY PEOPLE?!
Babes, they can’t find you. Because you are hiding from them. Painfully contorting yourself into who you think they want you to be, diluting your essence, just in case. Why?
The same reason you clench your bumcheeks when you need to say the price of anything you offer out loud. Or reply to a message about it. Can’t people just read the sales page?!
Some of them do, of course. They like your posts, and your testimonials, they click the links in your emails and then… SILENCE. If only you could find out what stops them from saying YES to you. If only there was a way… someone once suggested that you contact them to invite feedback… PAAAAAHHHHHAAAAAHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAA can you imagine?!
I mean, what if they said, “It’s too expensive! You don’t seem experienced enough to charge that. You irritate me…” Essentially- I don’t like this, OR YOU. The horror. The shame. The fear.
Deep, DEEP down, there’s a certainty in you that you were born to make real impact on people’s lives, to experience success, and to be recognised as someone who is capable, generous and authentic.
But closer to the surface is the block. The disguise. You’re like an Enchantress in Riot Gear- unrecognisable. Unseen. Unheard. Unknown.
Of course, some of your magic gets through. It’s a little muffled, but there are miraculous moments where the right clients/ wholesalers/ customers seem to have a sixth sense abut you.. You think woah, what I would do for another 10, ok 100 of these. Maybe you start to get frustrated with the versions of them you see out there in the world, oblivious to your talents. WHY won’t they pay attention.
PAY attention. Pay. Attention is currency. You need to offer them an exchange rate that makes sense for them. You nee to offer them all of who you are, and what you’re capable of.
And let’s face it- it’s not just those people dancing around the edges of your business, is it? It’s what goes on at home too. It’s the way your “little business” is referred to. The way your MIL implies or outright says you’re taking on too much- perhaps you should just be enjoying your kids, gorge…
It’s the way you tiptoe around mentioning that you need some time to work this weekend because that’s FUCKING FAMILY TIME.
There is nowhere that you are owning up to who you really are.
You feel like if you could just get through this current stage, just break into the territory of making enough money to JUSTIFY the time, to get the momentum of client referrals, to grow your following, you believe (half believe? Kinda wish?) that you could be carving out a beautiful life.
You’ve seen it done. You understand the freedom available. Other women, living on their temrs, autonomous over their time, retiring their husbands from jobs they detest, jetting off on retreats to gorgeous locations. Getting massages on weekdays. Getting expensive coffees daily. Making further investments in themselves. Going on date nights.
You’ve seen them, living out your fantasies, and if you’re really honest, you’ve been GREEN. Look at her. Just look. Charging that much. Wearing that. Saying that. Showing off. Loving herself. Shameless. WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?!
That painful jolt (often followed by guilt, shame and hopelessness) is a SIGN. A nudge. A reminder.
“You want this, and you could have it, if only you allowed yourself to receive it.”
If only you had the AUDACITY.
That’s where I come in…
If you want me 1:1, here are your options... (payment plans available & credit cards accepted)
SHORT, SHARP SHIFT
This is a one hour coaching call, preceded by a short questionnaire that you’ll complete and I’ll review, ensuring that we can target your issues promptly and effectively. You’ll receive a recording of the call for your reference.
You’ll get the same pre-work questionnaire that my longer term private clients receive, prompting you to gain clarity about what you really want, and what’s holding you back. A 3 hour coaching and strategy call will allow us time to explore what’s possible for you, and to cut through your BS. You’ll have me in your pocket- unlimited access to me on whatsapp (messages and voice notes) for 2 week after our call for my continued input as you take those first steps towards claiming the life you really want.
Alright, I've run out of rhymes and alliteration now, so let's keep it simple. If you wanna work with me up close and personal for longer, it looks like this... (and it feels like Coming home to yourself- actual client quote, thank you sarah tucker of the voice uK and the mortgage mum)
I am not gonna play it cool- I'm off the charts Excited to help you locate and activate your audacity
Audacious abundance, audacious self worth, audacious joy, audacious impact, it’s all yours for the taking. Almost every day, I receive messages from women in my community along these lines: “I cannot believe I’ve just done xyz, and it’s because you made me see things differently. I can’t stand to think I might have carried on through life not knowing I could.”
This is about you. And it’s about way more than you. When you allow yourself to be energised by the promise of your potential, when you begin to believe it’s safe for you to experience your life to the max, you send up a flare. Other women, other people from your background, your partner, your family and friends, your kids, everyone else’s kids… they will notice. You will permit them to reconsider their limits too. Can you fricking imagine a world where more people like you are in a state of expansion?! I CAN. It’s happening, babes. Come and lead it with me.