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Alright, who exactly do you think you are? Babe, the fact that you are even considering this is spine tinglingly exciting, so give yourself a pat on the back for making it this far.
You can always drop me a DM on instagram if you wanna chat. Absolutely zero pressure- I have no desire to get stuck in with anyone who is not the right fit for this work with me right now, and it’s not unusual for me to refer people on to someone else who I think could better meet their needs. Any conversation we have is a fact finding mission for both of us, as equals.
You’re about to hit the “Live” button, and you wonder- am I in the right place?! What if I’m ACTUALLY on my personal profile? What if people who KNOW ME hear me with my business head on?! Oh my geeeeeee I would DIE. Twice.
So you come off to triple check, wasting time (when you’d already spent a fair while checking your face and your hair and your teeth before that), trying to calm the F down. You deliver the livestream. A couple of people pop on, and quickly leave again. You’re trying to look at your notes without being seen, but you keep losing your flow because of that voice in your head. “THEY CAME, THEY HEARD, THEY LEFT. Because you are BORING AF. You don’t even know what you’re talking about, and they know it.”
You get through it, you come off a bit clammy and blotchy, and start an inner debate about whether you should just delete it. “What’s worse?”, you wonder. “Leaving that up or having nothing to show for your precious time?”
Scrolling to numb the feels, you come across a post from someone else in your industry. Solid. Polished. Interesting. And look at her engagement…
Maybe you should have been better rehearsed, or made more of an effort with your appearance…
On you scroll, until you find someone else from your field, bare faced and basic content, confidence BRIMMING. She talks about her clients and the messages she receives from her followers and you’re like WHERE ARE MY PEOPLE?!
Babes, they can’t find you. Because you are hiding from them. Painfully contorting yourself into who you think they want you to be, diluting your essence, just in case. Why?
The same reason you clench your bumcheeks when you need to say the price of anything you offer out loud. Or reply to a message about it. Can’t people just read the sales page?!
Some of them do, of course. They like your posts, and your testimonials, they click the links in your emails and then… SILENCE. If only you could find out what stops them from saying YES to you. If only there was a way… someone once suggested that you contact them to invite feedback… PAAAAAHHHHHAAAAAHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAA can you imagine?!
I mean, what if they said, “It’s too expensive! You don’t seem experienced enough to charge that. You irritate me…” Essentially- I don’t like this, OR YOU. The horror. The shame. The fear.
Deep, DEEP down, there’s a whisper of certainty in you that you were born to make real impact on people’s lives, to experience success, and to be recognised as someone who is capable, generous and authentic.
But the louder voice says things like, “you’re not ready”, “you’re not smart enough”, “you’re not attractive enough”, “even if you try, it won’t work out, so why bother?”, “oh crap, what if you ARE successful- more people will see you, you’ll be too busy, you won’t be able to keep it up”. So you play it safe.
(And babes, it makes sense. We live in a racist, capitalist, patriarchal society. That has an impact on our sense of worthiness, and our ideas about our potential. Any work that we do together takes all of this into account).
Of course, there are seemingly miraculous moments where the right clients/ wholesalers/ customers seem to have a sixth sense abut you.. You think woah, what I would do for another 10, ok 100 of these. Maybe you start to get frustrated with the versions of them you see out there in the world, oblivious to your talents. WHY won’t they pay attention? Why won’t they see my potential, even though I know I am hiding it from the world…
PAY attention. Pay. Attention is currency. You need to offer them an exchange rate that makes sense for them. You need to offer them all of who you are, and what you’re capable of.
And let’s face it- it’s not just those people dancing around the edges of your business, is it? It’s what goes on at home too. It’s the way your “little business” is referred to. The way your MIL implies or outright says you’re taking on too much- perhaps you should just be enjoying your kids, gorge…
It’s the way you tiptoe around mentioning that you need some time to work this weekend because that’s FUCKING FAMILY TIME.
There is nowhere that you are owning up to who you really are.
You feel like if you could just get through this current stage, just break into the territory of making enough money to JUSTIFY the time, to get the momentum of client referrals, to grow your following, you believe (half believe? Kinda wish?) that you could be carving out a beautiful life.
You’ve seen it done.
You’ve seen the women doing it, appearing to be living out your fantasies, and if you’re really honest, you’ve been GREEN. Look at her. Just look. Charging that much. Wearing that. Saying that. Showing off. Loving herself. Shameless. WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?!
That painful jolt (often followed by guilt, shame and hopelessness) is a SIGN. A nudge. A reminder.
“You want this, and you could have it, if only you allowed yourself to receive it.”
AND you can do it in a way that makes sense for you.
If only you had the AUDACITY to acknowledge, and ask for what you want..
That’s where I come in…
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Audacious abundance, audacious self worth, audacious joy, audacious impact, it’s all yours for the taking. Almost every day, I receive messages from women in my community along these lines: “I cannot believe I’ve just done xyz, and it’s because you made me see things differently. I can’t stand to think I might have carried on through life not knowing I could.”
This is about you. And it’s about way more than you. When you allow yourself to be energised by the promise of your potential, when you begin to believe it’s safe for you to experience your life to the max, you send up a flare. Other women, other people from your background, your partner, your family and friends, your kids, everyone else’s kids… they will notice. You will permit them to reconsider their limits too. Can you fricking imagine a world where more people like you are in a state of expansion?! I CAN. It’s happening, babes. Come and lead it with me.